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Monday, June 18, 2012

Happy Father's Day.. Or something like that

Well, it's not the first time it has happened, but I was wished a happy Father's day yesterday.

I don't take offense. Actually, it's pretty cool that someone takes a moment to recognize that I'm raising a child by myself and that his crappy (yes, I went there) birth father has nothing to do with him. As a matter of fact, it's been 6 years this month since I have even heard from him. Maybe he fell off a cliff. (Sorry, but there are snarky thoughts where he is concerned).

Today we see so many parents - moms and dads - who just get uninvolved in their kids lives. I don't know why it happens. Maybe a new spouse is to blame. Maybe disinterest. Whatever it is, don't let it happen to your kids.

Divorce hurts everyone involved, but there is so much that can be done now to stay in touch with kids. There is Skype, texting, email, Facebook, and more. Make an effort. Communicate with your kids.

So, to all you single parents out there, Happy Father's Day.

To you single moms who go it alone and are making it work... My hat is off to you.

To you single dads who stay involved with your kids.. You rock.

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