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Wednesday, May 21, 2014

I need to know!!!! (Feedback Needed, Please!!)



Sometimes I feel like I’m on a soapbox about things, but what I want to know is… what topics would you like to see me write about? Of course, they must revolve around dating, preferably as a Christian, but I feel pretty confident I can tackle a secular dating subject as well. 

What sort of things interest you?

What difficulties have you had in dating?

How many different websites have you tried? What success have you had?

Do you think your standards are too strict? Or not strict enough? 

Single Parents? I want to hear from you too!

I want to hear from you! If you are across the world, I want to hear your experiences! You could be right down the street from me and I still want to know J

I read an article last week on why men pull away from women. I realized I’m guilty of the things (according to this article) that make men pull away, and one in particular. The point was something to the effect of “men don’t want a woman who gives more love than they do.” In my understanding, men want to feel like they can protect more or give more than the woman does, and if that turns around on them, they disappear. This includes bringing them lunch, cooking or whatever.

Guys, is this accurate? I would love to know.

See, I love to cook, and I love to cook for the people I care about, but this article says I should not do this because it scares men off. This premise contradicts what I grew up with, which is “the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.”  I know things change, and there are other things that happen in relationships that scare people away, but I can’t cook for someone?????? That totally stinks.

Men – does it scare you when women do something nice for you? Inquiring minds want to know!