Women Behaving Badly

     

In the last few months, I have met several men who have been done very, very, very wrong by the women they were married to or in a relationship with.

I think women who behave so vindictively are awful and I don’t understand even one little bit as to why they behave the way they do. I know some people have mental problems, but seriously – you can’t blame everything on mental deficiencies.

Sometimes you just need to grow up.

Take responsibility for your own actions that got you to the place you are in.

STOP making your children suffer. Pay attention to them, be involved in their lives.

DO NOT make your children the go-between for you and your ex-spouse.

NEVER talk badly about your ex in front of or to your kids.

I met someone last night who started telling me his story about his ex (why, I don’t know. Apparently I radiate empathy). I feel badly for his child who is stuck in the middle, and probably will end up resenting her. I feel badly for the father who has to maintain balance and continutity for his child.

Another person I know has an ex with some serious problems. I gave him advice from my own experiences and told him he would regret it should he ever let her come back again. I told him he has to think of his children first and put their needs above his own. He does that already, but he has to do it in a manner that will not benefit the ex.

And yet another one has a crazy ex who tells lies and mistreated his child. Ugh.. so awful. I know the child in question and can’t understand why this type of thing would happen to such a sweet kid.

Things make a little more sense as to why men are gun-shy when it comes to asking women out. Will they meet the crazy ones who will be awful to their children? How about that stalker? OOHHH.. even better, the woman who wrongly accuses them of hitting or raping them?? Geez…. Will you crazy women stop making life so difficult for us normal women?!?!?!

It probably also would help if men (and women!!) wouldn’t introduce their kids to a dating partner really early in the relationship, especially if you aren’t sure you would really like the person. It makes for some hurting kiddos who don’t need more drama added to their worlds.